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February, 2010

  1. To leave or not to leave…

    February 23, 2010 by Stephanie

    That’s my hometown I’m talking about.

    For a very long time, I haven’t felt truly happy being where I am. I don’t like my job any more (not the majority of the people I work with), and I am not getting a lot of hours at the moment, to the point where I had to sign up for the unemployment benefit just to get extra money to survive! I have felt that I should leave my hometown but I didn’t know where I’d go.

    Now, I have an offer from a friend (someone I went to tech with) to move in with them – in Christchurch. I’ve really only got until tomorrow to make up my mind and I’m torn. I don’t want to leave Freddie behind so soon after getting her and I’m thinking that if anything, I’d take her with me. The only thing then is that we would have to find a place that is cat friendly.

    I am really torn. What do you think I should do?


  2. Desperate times call for desperate measures

    February 17, 2010 by Stephanie

    Most definitely for me these days.

    I guess that with the recession some would argue that we are still in, I should be thankful that I do have a job, albeit part time. I am thankful but then again, I’m not.

    I’ve worked for the same employer for coming up five years. I started working there when I was studying, primarily because the weekends were the only time that I was available due to my studies. During the Christmas/New Year holidays, I would get more hours because of full time staff having their holidays.

    I elected not to go back to study in 2008, primarily because I couldn’t fathom the idea of sitting through a second year paper for the third year in a row! This means that my work was my only source of income and still is. Last year before Christmas, I was shafted into the store’s Christmas Shop from the department I had been in for several months in favour of a student which I wasn’t happy about. Actually, said student did say that they felt bad about it.

    Anyway, my hours have never been consistant, which means my wages have never been consistant. I have to literally budget every week. There have been times where all I’ve eaten over a week is seven packets of 2-minute noodles (one a day and they don’t really fill you up) because that was all I could afford to buy. Since Christmas, I’ve gone from having two or three days during the week as well as the weekends down to Monday then the weekend and now, I’m down to just the weekend. A full day on Saturday and four hours on Sunday. 10 1/2 hours basically. It’s not enough for me to live on, with my board, my credit card payments and my current Student Loan repayment obligation that I am paying off. Although that 10 1/2 hours is more than what I am currently rostered on for next week – which is a big fat ZERO!

    I have had several people from work tell me that I should get a full time job elsewhere because there’s nothing for me where I am and I won’t get any further either. Believe me, I’ve thought that for a very long time.

    I’ve gotten to the stage where I will be going to WINZ (our Social Security department) to apply for the unemployment benefit, as they have said that I will qualify for some form of financial assistance because of my income. That reminds me that I need to finish my online application too! As it stands at the moment, because of when I first contacted them about it, they will owe me money but I don’t know how much and when it will show up in my bank account. I’ve had to skip all of my bill and automatic payments that would normally come out of my account tonight to next week and that was $8 in total for four.

    That means that until the money shows up, I have less than $5 to see me through until next week. I am not happy about it. I haven’t yet told my mother about the lack of hours for next week, let alone the fact that I can’t pay my board this week and I know that when I do, she will literally hit the roof and would more than likely speak to the person who does my roster.

    The one thing I am really looking forward to is getting my holiday and alternate leave paid out when I leave as it’s nearly $2,000 before tax!


  3. Now, that was a birthday I won’t be forgetting for a while!

    February 2, 2010 by Stephanie

    All in all, I had a good birthday on Sunday. It was sunny all day, I had several beers, got really sunburned on my upper back and I also did this:

    My sprained ankle Yes, I sprained my left ankle on my birthday! It was the way I landed getting down from the neighbours’ fence and I went right over on it, hearing something pop in the process, which apparently can happen with sprains. This is a pic of the ankle taken about a couple of hours ago. I have some bruising above the swelling and it does hurt when I walk but then again, I probably shouldn’t really be walking on it! I am doing the RICE (Rest, Ice, Compression, Elevation) thing with it at the moment and I can only hope that my ankle will be better by the weekend, when I’ll be working next.

    Not exactly the brainiest thing I’ve done either! Oh well.

    Edited: 4.2.10: The swelling and bruising are still there and are both creeping their way down my foot to my toes. I noticed the swelling there at around 12.45am this morning. The foot is bandaged at the moment but I should be elevating it but I can’t when I’m on the PC, haha. Needless to say, I will be getting it seen to and hopefully will be getting some form of accident compensation for it too!

    Edited: 6.2.10: I finally got my ankle checked out yesterday and it is definitely sprained. I had xrays just to rule out the possibility of a break. I have a decent compression bandage on my ankle now and I’m getting around on crutches. I also have 10 days off from work on doctors’ orders because with being on crutches, I can only stand for a certain length of time. I will be getting some form of compensation for the wages that I will be missing out on which is better than nothing.